I once had this theory that even the most meek and reserved personalities have wild kinks and fantasies. It’s just a matter time for them to manifest when they are ready. Yes, readiness is key. The ones who profess they do not have a wild side are most probably overcome by guilt thereby them ending up suppressing the inclination to do what they fear might be character-damaging or emotionally-wrenching to those closest to them. “Break my family’s heart or follow my heart’s desire?” Tough choice.

What I’m actually getting at is we only get to live once and there is no room nor time to regret not doing something which you are forever itching on trying out. On the premise that these inclinations are within normal societal bounds. Of course, being bad is much more exciting especially if you could pull it off without a hitch. No doubt about that. There are alternative ways to being naughty which will not necessarily make you dwell in that bad-ass lifestyle. I know of someone who has this perennial fantasy of becoming a wrestler-cum-rockstar who chose to be tattoo-and-piercings free to this very day despite him being of legal age. Old enough to make a harem of concubines, even. Point is, the sad fella has no venue for the fulfillment of his childhood dream. No Never Never Land to escape to. So suck the matter up in suppression or give it a try. Once is the only number of occurence when any deed or misdeed is excusable.

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